I'm not saying this to judge, make fun, or question anyone's preferences or fetishes...just a little discussion. After all, I'm a strong believer that sexuality is one of those areas that is so diverse (and awesome!) that no person can tell another what is or isn't a fetish, how to define their sexual interests, etc. This may need to go to a separate thread, but I'll specifically about this fetish here.
Here is my take on fetishes. I think there is a line between a preference, a "like," and a fetish. Fetishes are things that cause heightened arousal, things that immediately grab your attention and get you going, something you are so fixated on that sexual energy pours from you. Fetishes are intense, bend you to their will, and can cause you to lose control. I don't consider those things that "turn me on" to be fetishes. Those are preferences or likes. I seek out experiences that include those things in order to achieve sexual gratification, but for me they aren't necessarily things that are going to take me to the next level, into fetish. Again, this is how I personally feel about fetishes. Others may have a looser definition. If w=others are interested in a separate thread to discuss the bounds

of fetish, let me know.
All that being said, do you feel that combed hair takes you to that place? Are you jizzing in your pants when you walk down the street and cross paths with a suave, slick do? Is it an intense experience, or is it something you really like that turns you on? Curious.
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